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It's really an important issue, important reminder for each and every one of us. It doesn't mean you have to apply all the sixty ways or you must apply the sixty ways to keep your wife happy. No, but sometimes you are not being attention to one of the sixty ways, that is really putting a hole in your relationship, putting a hole in your boat. The boat of your marriage, the boat of your life. So basically some of us could apply this 60 ways, some of us could apply half of them but really you want to be a Champion. The art of love, the art of great dealing in a husband to wife relationship.
Take a look at this 60 ways and you really find that each and every one of us needs them. And why I choose to start with the sisters, with the wives because they say when the husband is happy at home that means one person is happy. But when the wife is happy at home that means the whole family is happy. The greatest achievement of a marriage, it is tranquility. If you have no tranquility in your marriage that is not a marriage. Tranquility means love, peace, comfort. I will exhibit this 60 ways explaining briefly what does it mean, this particular point or that point. You can pick and choose any one. Some of us would like to practice all the 60. Some of us would say, you know what, I'm a champion already in these 60 points but this is a reminder for me. Take a look at your wife. She is a trust in your hand. So let's go one point after the second point. We will start with the next point which is:
60 Ways To Keep Your Wife's Love Guaranteed! (Part 1)
60 Ways To Keep Your Wife's Love Guaranteed! (Part 2)
Point 11
When Allah wants to cause people evil, Allah will leave them arguing disputing among themselves. Therefore, yes for flattering and no for arguing. It will keep the love of your wife.Point 12
Call your wife with the best names she likes to hear. This is nothing wrong with you calling your wife sweet pie, honey bun, sweetie. You know, call her with any name she likes. Call her with the name that she loved to hear. That particular practice will direct go to the heart. It is one of the ways to keep her love guaranteed.Point 13
Sometimes you know a pleasant surprise could reach to the heart. There are so many ways to do the pleasant surprise. Maybe she loves, for example water melon. And suddenly you are bringing her a lot of water melon. And this might not be the season of water melon and somehow you bring her water melon. It's not going to the stomach. This is going to the heart. This is called the pleasant surprise. Pick and choose, be an artist of surprising her in a pleasant way.Point 14
Preserving the tongue. Some brother and some sisters may say something that takes year to write out or wipe out. The collection of people tongue will through them written their face. So preserving the tongue, it is seriously an important matter.Point 15
All of us are shortcomings. For us to look only her shortcomings and to think that we are perfect then it's really a serious problem. So expect her shortcomings. And expecting her shortcomings will keep your love in the long run.Point 16
You will find some brother, who really loves their wife. Really they appreciate them. Really they like what they have done today or the food they cooked or the way how they dressed. But they don't say it. They just love it and they appreciate that. They keep it in their heart. Take it from your heart or from the tongue of your heart, put it on the tongue of your mouth, deliver it. Show her, tell her that you appreciate her. tell her that you like that particular meal she made. To leave with them and to deal with them in a good way, in a kind way. So show that appreciation.Point 17
Encourage her to be in touch with her kind relation. And to be kind to her mom and dad. And to be in touch with her mom and dad that brings her life blessings, that brings her life mercy from Allah. In return that blessings and mercy is your love and is your mercy. It is your comfort.Point 18
Speak the topic of her interest. Choose the topic of her interest. You know sometimes you are 10 hours outside home. And 14 hours inside home. Spent 3 or 4 hours with her. Some of us will carry a conversation in which she has no interest in that. We will come and tell her that you know today in my training I get somebody kicked in the stomach and he vomit to that me and all this. No, this is not something, she is not interested in. Pick a topic her interest. It will keep the love. It will increase the love. And it preserves the love.Point 19
This is seriously an important matter. That, right before her relatives, right in front of her relatives that you show that she is wonderful. That you really mention that she is wonderful. That you admit and you accept and you realize and you confirm that she is wonderful. Show that to her relatives. Speak out that she is a good person. That can preserve the love.Point 20
Gift each other. Gifts that you love each other. You know that $5 gift, $50 gift, $500 gift, whatever you could effort. That gift, it goes a long way. And this is confirmed that you will give her gift, she will love you. And that will increase the love. And that will polish the love. And you could try that any time. It works. When is the last time you bought your wife a gift? My brothers and my sisters, it doesn't mean that she is my wife and I have to wait for an occasion. No, there is an every day a reason, why you have to give her a gift. Take an example, suppose you come to my home, while you are drinking your coffee, you put it in your clothes, you drop the coffee in your clothes. I come and take your clothes and personally wash your clothes, dry your clothes, iron your clothes. What would happened? I'm sure for the rest of your life you will not forget this story, you will not forget what I have done for you. What about your wife? She is doing daily much more than that. Whether she is working at home, a full-time mom, whether she is working outside and again being also a full-time mom.To receive updates on new articles, subscribe to Dew Drop Of Jupiter
