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It's really an important issue, important reminder for each and every one of us. It doesn't mean you have to apply all the sixty ways or you must apply the sixty ways to keep your wife happy. No, but sometimes you are not being attention to one of the sixty ways, that is really putting a hole in your relationship, putting a hole in your boat. The boat of your marriage, the boat of your life. So basically some of us could apply this 60 ways, some of us could apply half of them but really you want to be a Champion. The art of love, the art of great dealing in a husband to wife relationship.
Take a look at this 60 ways and you really find that each and every one of us needs them. And why I choose to start with the sisters, with the wife because they say when the husband is happy at home that means one person is happy. But when the wife is happy at home that means the whole family is happy. The greatest achievement of a marriage, it is tranquility. If you have no tranquility in your marriage that is not a marriage. Tranquility means love, peace, comfort. I will exhibit this 60 ways explaining briefly what does it mean, this particular point or that point. You can pick and choose any one. Some of us would like to practice all the 60. Some of us would say, you know what, I'm a champion already in these 60 points but this is a reminder for me. Take a look at your wife. She is a trust in your hand. So let's go one point after the second point. We will start with the first point which is:
Point 1: Make her feel secure
Assure her the tranquility. Make her feel secure. Make her feel that tranquility. Quit the gum of evil. Quit the gum that you could get from everywhere. And that gum called 'I'll divorce you', 'I'm gonna kick you out of home', 'I'm going to get rid of you'. Quit that gum. That could put a hole in your marriage.Point 2: Say 'Peace Be Upon You' when you go home
This particular great positive energy and great greeting will kick the evil out of your home. A man said, 'I came home and suddenly I got so angry at my wife, but really she was wise, she just took and went to other room. I said oops I didn't pay attention. When I came home I didn't say greeting to her. Then I left home, I went outside for few seconds and I came back home and I said Peace Be Upon You. Nobody could hear me, but the evening ended in loves and jokes.' That's why that particular greetings will kick the evil out of your home, out of your marriage.Point 3: Take care of your wife
Your wife is a fragile vessel. Take care of this fragile vessel. And remember that, in this particular vessel there is goodness. You must treat this particular vessel in a gentle way.Point 4: Advise her in privacy
This is one way to keep her in love. When you want to advise her, do it in privacy. Advice her at the best time. That there is some kind of love atmosphere, some kind of romantic atmosphere, some kind of peaceful atmosphere. Don't advice her in the public. Once a poet said, "Intent advising me in a privacy, avoid advising me in the public. Advises in the public is a type of slandering. I don't accept, I don't listen to." So sometimes to administrate, to inject that nice request you have, choose the best time, choose the time when the mood is good and happy to keep her in love.Point 5: Being generous with your wife
Being generous with her shows us that you are kind. And your status to the Allah is good. Because your generosity to your wife is a direct business to the Allah. And it is direct credit to her heart. To be generous with your wife will keep her in love.Related Article
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