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10:53 AM
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Mahmudur Rahman
Follow me on twitterTake these 3 simple steps and plant the seeds of prosperity and harmony for your new year ahead. Now is the time to clear out the old and make room for the new. Sometimes the hardest things to hear (and do) are so simple and easy you can’t believe they work. Give Good Fortune a try – you’ll love the results. The Winter Solstice months of December and January are the longest nights and the shortest days of the year. It is a time that nature draws within herself. Leaves fall, some animals hibernate, as do many trees in cold climates (and the sap runs again in the spring.) It is a time of you naturally turning inward to inner peace and stillness – and also a time of festivities, parties and gatherings of friends and families. Find your balance between the two and spend quiet time now.Nothing happens unless first a dream. (Carl Sagan)
Dust off your imagination, and play with your own potential for the coming year. What is your Dream of the best life can be? Discover your own unique creative path to wealth and health. Can you Imagine your past year – and life up to now – as a big garden? Try it. Pretend that all your habits, activities, work, play, hobbies, and relationships are flowers and vegetables growing in your life’s garden. Winter is the best time to clear some space for new growth in the Spring.This time of year is quiet, and much now lies dormant. You can easily see the weeds of fear, judgment and blame that kept some plants (desires) from blossoming and bearing fruit last year. Some places the weeds overtook your best intentions, and your harvest was not what you’d hoped. Imagine you can clear out the old 'weed' habits of fear, anxiety and blame, set them aside, dried and withered, and burn them. Watch them go up in smoke. Now the ashes will make the soil richer – so dig everything up, turn the soil, see the rich earth fertile and ready to bring forth new life in the spring. The seeds of your future need a fresh place to grow, then bear fruit and a bountiful harvest in the coming year.We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. (Aristotle)
Take these 3 steps and assure you have created the space for your New Year. To have something new - you must create the space for it - and do something new about achieving it. Use your power to Vision and Imagine as a good starting place. Imagine the Winds of Change clearing away the old and opening up a way to bring in the new.How much pain they have cost us, the evils which have never happened. (Thomas Jefferson)
CleanseClean away and let go of all that is no longer of use, remove all that is interfering with you flowing easily in life. Make room - a fresh clean space to invite in all you Desire. Open up and release all that is outside your Vision. Cleanse away old models and unconscious habits that conflict with your vision. All fears of loss, of not being good enough – fears of illness or poverty or aging. Clean out fears (from ancestors and childhood) – of authority, of others, of evil (stopping or interfering with you) and of not being safe on your own or of working with others. Fear of change, fear of failure or of a set-back, fear of taking risks, fear of humiliation or that someone will disapprove of your Dreams. Fear you can’t find your right place and your own inner - Vision. Fear you can’t do it, can’t make it on your own, that no one will help. Fear of not knowing the outcome, nothing is certain, most fail, what do you fear? Clear away the old habit patterns that keep you ignorant of Inspiration and Opportunities. Old habits guarantee you will fail: Following others and authority, sticking to old ideas and models, compulsive responses to social triggers and remaining consistent to the past.
Courage is the power to let go of the familiar. (Raymond Lindquist)
RenewWhat needs to be renewed, refreshed, remembered, and revitalized? Renew your sense of yourself: Choose to move into the fresh, light feeling of love and appreciation for all life. Make a list of 20 talents and 10 things that make you happy. Recall your inner-Vision. Follow what feels good, a natural path from your heart to your Dream. Renew your commitment to stop automatic responses and live Mindfully. Feel the weight of ignorance, of old models, falling away and with it the fear, anxiety and inertia that blocks the path to the life you want. Align with your Dream of the good life - and feel the fun and Joy of living it NOW. Remember to feel appreciation – that vibration and feeling is out of the range of fear. Seek out your Dream in your daily life and to enjoy the qualities of fun and playfulness you want to live, even in small ways. Open to your New Year ahead. Open your body – to healing quickly, being vital and flexible. Open your mind to the knowing within and speak of love and joy. Open your heart to the love all around – share it and feel happiness. Open to Mindful Intentional living NOW - present, aware, secure. Open to be at - ONE with Source – the creative Life Force within you. In the past it may not have been possible to have it all – but now it is. Anything you Desire and Focus on is available to you: Your potential is unlimited. Renew this expansive, happy feeling and live it. Look for it and you’ll find it. Love your Dream unconditionally. Renew your commitment to live your passion. Accept and approve of doing what pleases you most. Be free to create and explore the best life has to offer. Well-being is your birthright. Claim your rightful place as a Creator in life.
The way you treat yourself sets the standard for others. (Sonya Friedman)
PurityFind the core essence of you – the place you’re perfect. Your pure essence is you loving your Vision of your future. Feel the purity of the Life Force flowing into creation. Enjoy it and flow with it – it’s leading to everything you want. Once the old habits fall away – you are free to explore more of whom you are and what you Desire. Feel the freshness, the lightness, and the purity of your intention to find and live loving, happy, easy, playful experiences - that Attracts more of your Vision. Find your pure inner Vision. Take it with you to your holiday parties and gatherings. See the world from within the life you love. Everyone will enjoy you – and you will not be bothered by anything – those that are not in harmony will not be attracted to you.
If we all did the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves. (Thomas Edison)
Cleanse, Renew and find Purity, these 3 steps to guarantee a successful future. Do you feel a difference now - from when you started imagining? Your feelings open up possibilities. It really is that simple. It does take repetition and quiet time so you can hear your own Inspiration. Spend time alone - get to know your self. Choose to be in Beauty and Nature – that refreshes and enlivens you. Stop all self-talk, be still and allow Inspiration to emerge – it is the easy way to make changes, and quiet time opens the door to your inner guidance. You’ll find you really like the YOU in your Dream. Why not live that now? Once you have your garden free of fear and ready – imagine planting the seeds of health and wealth and spend some time dwelling on how good life will be this coming spring and summer as what you Desire grows tall, blossoms, bears fruit and you harvest just what you want. How often repeat it? How much do you want what you want?Your Good Fortune
Sow the seeds of your future with every thought, word and deed. A bountiful harvest will soon be yours.
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10:30 PM
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Mahmudur Rahman
Follow me on twitterIn this article, I'm not talking about anyone's look or appearance, but rather their behavior, their disposition, their attitude, their language and their habits. Some people (even some of the the 'beautiful people' - what is beauty anyway?) repel, rather than attract. Keep in mind that I'm not talking about 'how to be a hottie!', and I won't be writing it.This post is actually about learning to become one of those people that others want to hang around, be with, talk to, get to know. Some people are attractive. That is, they attract. Guys, girls, old, young. People just enjoy being around them. There's something about them that's appealing, magnetic. People want to get to know them. They're funny, they're engaging, they're charismatic. They're likable. They smell good.Listen to people and be genuinely interestedThis doesn't mean simulated interested and manufactured head nodding either. This takes real time, energy and effort. If you want people to be drawn to you, you need to be all about them, not you. Talk to them, not at them. Have conversations, don't give lectures. Some people are ugly because the only voice they enjoy the sound of, is their own. And the only opinion that matters is theirs.
Get in shapeWe know that attractiveness is largely not about the physical, but if you genuinely want to attract then being in shape ain't gonna hurt. Not Mr Universe or Miss world just fit and healthy. Being in shape (physically) also helps us emotionally and psychologically, which in turn makes us more attractive!
Personal grooming and hygieneOkay this is my last comment on the physical but it's necessary. It doesn't matter if we look like Angelina or Brad, if we've got breath like a Buffalo and armpits like a Yak, we're attracting nobody! For goodness sakes, how can some people not smell themselves! I regularly talk to people who stink and everyone knows except them. When I'm chatting to someone with stinky breath (have you got a dead marsupial in your mouth? - stinky), I can't concentrate. I can't think about anything except the smell. It distracts me. Clean your teeth, fart breath! Water, soap, shampoo, toothpaste - all are cheap and easily accessible resources; give them a go.
Be an optimistThis doesn't mean, don't be practical and don't be a realist, but nobody wants to hang out with Mr (or Mrs) woe-is-me-my-life's-so-hard. Hey, I care about global warming but I don't want to have a three hour conversation with you about why the world is ending next week and who's fault it is. Yes we live in a nasty, dysfunctional, scary world, but what if we decided that it's actually an amazing, exciting, incredible place with infinite opportunities for those who dare to be different. What if we decided to see the good rather than search for (and focus on) the bad.
Have fun with peopleRemember fun? laughter? Remember laughing so hard you thought you'd be sick or die from lack of oxygen. Those were the days. Remember when fart jokes were funny. Before we got all mature, politically correct, precious and easily offended. People who laugh and have fun are cool to be around.
Don't lose your temperBad tempered people are ugly. They repel, not attract. This doesn't mean don't get angry. Anger has a place. But out-of-control, ranting, raving, unreasonable idiots need a (loving) slap. I'll do it! If you have anger management issues, address them.
Random acts of kindnessGenerous, selfless, thoughtful, kind people are the most attractive. No agenda, no crap. Just kindness.
Get spiritualNot to be confused with... get weird and freaky. This suggestion definitely needs a disclaimer. Getting spiritual (whatever that means for you) can make you more attractive. Or not. If your spiritual journey results in you being more centred, balanced, calmer, more insightful and happier. Well then that's cool. Conversely, if it means that you end up being some weirdo, fanatical, super-religious, zealot living in some subterranean bunker surviving on canned food and crawling out of your hole at night to communicate telepathically with your brothers from another galaxy, maybe not so cool! Or if it means hurting or hating someone who has different spiritual beliefs to you, not cool. At all.
Be confidentNot to be confused with being arrogant. Quiet confidence is attractive.
Be humbleDefinitely one of the most universally attractive and desirable qualities. Humility is a decision, an attitude, a philosophy. A way of living, being and communicating. It's attractive.
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7:26 PM
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Mahmudur Rahman
Follow me on twitterEvery people has a regular routine of daily or weekly habits in his or her life that might be good or bad. But good habits reinforce the things that are most important. Successful people practice a set of personal success habits, they maintain a positive outlook, keep focused on their priorities, have more energy, and a greater sense of satisfaction with life.As you go through this list of personal habits, you might think that most of these are nothing new. And you’re probably right. These are pretty basic habits – not rocket science. The key to personal success habits is that you do them consistently.How many of these habits do you do on a regular basis?Eat wellPractice the 80/20 rule. Eighty percent of the time, make very good nutritional choices. The rest of the time go ahead and indulge yourself.
ExerciseMove it or lose it. Choose physical activities that you love keeping in mind that a well balanced exercise program includes flexibility, strength and cardio components.
Practice personal reflectionIn quiet moments you are more able to hear your true self speaking. Take time to create a regular practice of reflection through meditation, journaling or prayer.
VolunteerConnect with your local or global community to contribute your time, energy, and/or resources. You get to feel good making a difference and others reap the benefits. We’re all part of the same interconnected world.
Get enough sleepMost people are in a state of sleep deprivation. During sleep your body rests and repairs itself so you are better able to take on the joys and challenges of life.
De-clutter physically & emotionallyClutter depletes your energy. Regularly sort through and get rid of stuff that is getting in your way. This includes relationships that are no longer satisfying and fulfilling.
Create a success circleSurround yourself with people who will support, encourage and challenge you to be your best. These are the people you can go to for brainstorming, advice or a good old kick in the pants when you need it.
Listen to musicMusic has the power to relax, entertain and heal. Build your music library and use it to support your other success habits.
Indulge your creativityBesides being a way to express yourself, creativity increases your problem solving abilities. You can explore your creative self not only through the arts, but also through activities such as cooking, gardening, photography or decorating.
ReadExpand your mind with both fiction and nonfiction books. Even if you are not a 'book' person, you can still get the same intellectual stimulation through audio books.
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1:31 AM
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Mahmudur Rahman
Follow me on twitterPeace be upon youWe’ve all done it at some time or other. We put off our exercise routine until tomorrow; we continually delay finishing that project or starting that business. Procrastination is the mother of all demons and can literally stop you in your tracks from achieving all that you desire.You can use this 5 effective steps to slay this giant.
Do it now
Hold your breath and jump right in! Putting things off until the last minute is a bad habit and like all habits is ingrained in our subconscious mind and hard to break. It feels like the normal thing to do and we simply continue along our path. To complete a task immediately may even feel strange or like a forced action. When your boss gives you a task or when your clients or customers request your expertise, do it right away! You not only look well-organized to others, the feeling that the job is done, is complete before the deadline, will be one of relief and gratitude. How would this efficiency look to your customers when you request a referral or to your boss when salary reviews are approaching? I would think, 'Great'.
Take baby stepsSometimes we procrastinate because the task may be intimidating to us. Perhaps we have no possible inkling on where to start. In these cases, it is quite fine to take it one step at a time. What you need to do is simply break down the project into smaller pieces and tackle each bit separately. Make each task an individual project and after completion of each one, celebrate and acknowledge your achievement. Soon you’ll be finished and have no idea why you were putting it off in the first place!
Vision the perfectOnce you are aware that you are in fact procrastinating, creating a vision of you achieving the perfect plan is extremely helpful. When you create a vision you write in the present tense, as if you have already achieved your goal or if you are in the process of completing it. In creating a vision and focusing on it daily, the universal laws state that things, people, processes will begin to occur in your life that will allow you to attract that vision.
Forget itWhy force the issue? If you have been ‘dragging your feet’ on something for a very long time, it may all be for the best. Something, somewhere is trying to tell you something. That something is your intuition and it is usually right!
Support teamDo you put off tasks because you feel that there are too big and complex for you to handle alone? Or because you need assistance? Be honest with yourself. 'No man is an island'. Ask for help! There are many resources out there that can provide you with all you need to carry out your job.
Procrastinating on life changing activities could be as a result of fear of the unknown. Get a mentor, join a support group. You don’t have to do it all by yourself. Just ensure that to kick this habit; you do what feels good to you in whatever method you choose. You’ll surely postponeprocrastination for a very long time.To receive updates on new articles, subscribe to Dew Drop Of Jupiter
12:16 AM
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Mahmudur Rahman
Follow me on twitterPeace be upon youToday will always be today.Tomorrow will always be tomorrow.Today whatever you do will be on record.But what you do on Tomorrow will not,It will be your Future.You can only think for tomorrow,But all you can do Today.To receive updates on new articles, subscribe to Dew Drop Of Jupiter
11:34 PM
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Mahmudur Rahman
Follow me on twitterPeace be upon youI can't sleep, as I'm thinking deep,So many hurdles facing in life.Taking deep breathe and saying my mind,Daylight comes after hours of dark night.The clouds will vanish to appear vanilla sky.As life goes, ups and downs happen,Hope charm and happiness will come at the end.To receive updates on new articles, subscribe to Dew Drop Of Jupiter
7:55 AM
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7:28 AM
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Mahmudur Rahman
Follow me on twitterPeace be upon youAt times, even the Sun’s brightness is overshadowed by clouds.Why can’t yours?However dark and dense the clouds may be, Sun will shine back. And it will shine the brightest.Why can’t you?To receive updates on new articles, subscribe to Dew Drop Of Jupiter
7:02 AM
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Mahmudur Rahman
Follow me on twitterPeace be upon youEid-ul-Adzha :: the sacrificial eid.It teaches us to sacrifice our affection.May almighty Allah grant our sacrifice.Let's take an oath today,Will kill out beast of prey.Let's utilize the spirit of holy eid,And wish you have eternal peace of mind in your inner and after life.Eid Mubarak.To receive updates on new articles, subscribe to Dew Drop Of Jupiter
11:04 AM
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Mahmudur Rahman
Follow me on twitterPeace be upon youKeep your heart free from hate, your mind from worry.Live simply, expect little, give much.Fill your life with love. Scatter sunshine.Forget self, think of others. Do as you would be done by.Its the way to happiness.Try this for a week and you will be surprised.To receive updates on new articles, subscribe to Dew Drop Of Jupiter
10:52 AM
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Mahmudur Rahman
Follow me on twitterPeace be upon youLife should not be a journey to the gravewith the intention of arriving safelyin an attractive and well-preserved body.But rather to skid in sideways,champagne in one hand,strawberries in the other,body thoroughly used up,totally worn out and screamingWoohoo - What a ride!To receive updates on new articles, subscribe to Dew Drop Of Jupiter